Thanks for this reminder!

…st all of the time. I realized this was just me learning to control the only thing I could control, meaning controlling my response and reaction.

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Thanks for this reminder! We can’t stop our initial thoughts, but we can control our response and reaction.

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thank you very much for reading and especially sharing your thoughts. I am a work in progress but getting better at this :)

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